Roze ka maqsad aur insani jazbat ka imtihan

Roza sirf bhook aur pyaas se bachne ka naam nahi hai, balkay ye ek roohani safar hai jahan banda apne jazbaat, nafs aur khwahishat par qaboo paane ki koshish karta hai. Islam mein roze ka asal maqsad insaan ko taqwa aur sabr sikhana hai. Jab banda Allah ke liye apni halali khwahishat se bhi door rehta hai, to uska darja un logon se barh jata hai jo sirf zahiri ibadat tak mehdood hote hain.

Shohar aur biwi ke darmiyan mohabbat ek fitri aur paak jazba hai. Lekin Ramzan ke dino mein jab banda roza daar hota hai, to use apne jazbaat par aur bhi zyada qaboo paana hota hai.

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 Islam mein shohar-biwi ka ta’alluq aur uski hurmat

Islam ne shohar aur biwi ke ta’alluq ko izzat aur hurmat di hai. Nikah ke zariye dono ek doosre ke liye libaas hain — jaise Qur’an mein farmaya gaya:

“Hunna libaasul lakum wa antum libaasul lahunna”
(Al-Baqarah: 187)
Yani “Woh tumhare liye libaas hain aur tum unke liye libaas ho.”

Ye ayat ye samjhati hai ke dono ek doosre ke liye aman, sukoon aur haya ka sabab hain. Magar Ramzan ke dino mein, subah se maghrib tak physical ta’alluq se parhez lazmi hai. Ye Allah ka hukm hai taake banda apne nafs par qaboo aur jazbaati paakizgi hasil kar sake.

 Roze ke dauran jazbat par control kyu zaroori hai

Roze ke dauran shohar-biwi dono ke liye apne jazbaat par control zaroori hai, kyunke ye waqt ibadat aur sabr ka hota hai. Agar banda apne emotions ko control nahi kare to roze ka asal maqsad adhoora reh jata hai.

Islam ye nahi kehta ke mohabbat gunaah hai — balkay ye ek paak rishta hai. Lekin roza hamein ye sikhata hai ke har cheez ka ek waqt hota hai. Jab banda apni halali khwahishat ko bhi Allah ke liye rok leta hai, to ye sab se badi ibadat ban jati hai.

Roze mein jazbat par control rakhne ke tareeqe

• Zikr aur Tilawat ka aam karna:
  Jab jazbaat par qaboo mushkil lage, to Qur’an ki tilawat aur zikr se dil ko sukoon milta hai.
  

• Nafs ki tazkiya:
  Roze ka maqsad nafs ki paakizgi hai. Apne dil aur zehan ko gunahon se bachaiye.
  

• Dua aur istighfar:
  Har waqt Allah se madad mangiye ke wo aapko sabr aur tahammul de.
  

• Fazool soch se parhez:
  Apne zehan ko ghair zaroori aur bekaar khayalat se door rakhiye.
  

• Ibadat aur khidmat mein masroof rahiye:
  Roze ke waqt apna focus ibadat, Qur’an aur ghareebon ki madad par rakhiye.
  

 Shohar aur biwi ki mohabbat – roohani pehlu

Roze ke dauran bhi shohar aur biwi ke darmiyan mohabbat khatam nahi hoti, balkay ye aur paak ho jati hai. Jab dono ek doosre ka khayal rakhtay hain, ek doosre ko ibadat aur sabr par ubhartay hain, to ye rishta sirf duniya nahi, aakhirat ke liye bhi mazboot hota hai.

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Mohabbat ka asal maqsad sirf jazbaati taskeen nahi, balkay ek doosre ko Allah ke raaste par rehnumai karna hai.

 Ramzan ke baad mohabbat mein roohani asar

Ramzan ke baad jab rozay khatam ho jaate hain, to ek mo’min aur mo’mina apne rishtay ko aur paak taur par nibhate hain. Ye jazba Allah ke qareeb hone ka nateeja hota hai. Jab dono ne mil kar apne nafs par qaboo paaya hota hai, to unke darmiyan mohabbat mein barkat aa jati hai.

Qur’ani aur hadees ki roshni mein rehnumai

Rasool Allah ﷺ ne farmaya:

“Roza ek dhal hai.”
Ye hadees hamein batati hai ke roza insaan ko gunahon aur behayai se bachata hai.

Isi tarah, Qur’an mein bhi farmaya gaya hai:

“Ta’budoon la’allakum tattaqoon”
(Al-Baqarah: 183)
Yani “Taqwa hasil karne ke liye roza farz kiya gaya.”

Isliye, shohar-biwi dono ke liye ye farz hai ke wo roze ke dauran apne jazbaat par qaboo rakhein aur apni ibadat ko paak banayein.

 Taj Company aur quran ka paigham

Taj Company aur quran ka mission ye hai ke log Qur’an aur Islam ki asal taleemat ko samjhein. Mohabbat, sabr aur ibadat ka rishta ek doosre se juda nahi — balkeh ye Islam ki bunyaad hain. Roza hamein sikhata hai ke mohabbat mein bhi Allah ka hukm sab se upar hai.

Quraan.pk par aapko Taj Company ke tarjuma shuda Qur’an, tafsir books, aur Islamic gift sets milte hain jo aapke gharon mein roohani barkat laate hain.

 Nateeja – Roze ka sabse bara sabaq

Roza sirf bhook aur pyaas se nahi, balkay jazbaat par control ka imtihan hai. Shohar-biwi dono agar Ramzan ke dauran apne rishtay ko paak aur adab ke daire mein rakhen, to Allah unke darmiyan muhabbat mein barkat ata karta hai.

Roze ka sabse bara sabaq hai:
“Apne jazbaat par qaboo paakar, apni mohabbat ko ibadat mein tabdeel karna.”

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