Ramadan Islami saal ka sabse mubarak aur muqaddas mahina hai. Is mahine mein roza (fasting) har baligh Muslim par farz hai. Roza sirf khana peena chor dene ka naam nahi, balkay apni khwahishat, jazbaat aur amal par qaboo paane ka ek roohani amal hai.
Roze ke dauran shohr-biwi ke darmiyan taluq (mubashrat) se mutaliq ek aham sawal hota hai:
“Agar ghalti ya kamzori se roze ke waqt shohr aur biwi ka taluq ho jaye to kya roza toot jata hai? Aur iska kaffara kya hai?”
Is maqale mein hum Qur’an, Sunnat aur fuqaha ke ahkaam ki roshni mein is nazuk maslay ko samjhenge — mukammal aur authentic Islamic guidance ke sath jo aapko milti hai Quran par, jahan Taj Company Quran aur Tafseer editions dastiyab hain.
Qurani Rehnumai – Mubashrat Ramadan Mein
Quran-e-Pak ne raat ke waqt ijazat aur din ke waqt pabandi dono wazeh taur par bayan ki hain.
🌙 Raat Ke Waqt Halal Taluq
Allah Ta’ala farmata hai (Surah Al-Baqarah, 2:187):
“Tumhare liye raaton mein apni biwiyon ke paas jana halal kar diya gaya hai.
Wo tumhare liye libaas hain aur tum unke liye libaas ho…”
Is ayat se sabit hota hai ke Iftar ke baad se Sehri tak shohr aur biwi apas mein qurbat kar sakte hain. Ye amal halal aur sawab ka baais hai jab tak wo nikah ke daayre mein ho.
🌅 Din Ke Waqt Mana (Haram) Taluq
Lekin roze ke waqt (Fajr se Maghrib tak) mubashrat bilkul mana hai. Jaise khana-peena roza tod deta hai, waise hi jismi taluq bhi roza ko baatil kar deta hai.
Hadith Mein Is Maslay Ki Tafseel
Ek sahabi Rasool Allah ﷺ ke paas aaye aur arz ki:
“Ya Rasool Allah! Main halak ho gaya, maine apni biwi se taluq kiya jab main roza rakh raha tha.”
Rasool Allah ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Kya tum aik ghulam azaad kar sakte ho?”
Usne kaha, “Nahi.”
“Kya tum 2 mahine lagataar roza rakh sakte ho?”
Usne kaha, “Nahi.”
“Kya tum 60 miskeenon ko khila sakte ho?”
Usne kaha, “Nahi.”
Phir Nabi ﷺ ne use khajoor di aur farmaya ke ye gareebon mein taqseem karo.
(Sahih Bukhari, Sahih Muslim)
Ye Hadith kaffara ka buniyadi saboot hai.
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Jo Amal Roza Tod Dete Hain
❌ Shohr-biwi ke darmiyan jinsi taluq (intercourse) roze ke waqt.
❌ Qasdana jismi lagao ya amal jisse ejaculation ho.
Jo Amal Roza Nahi Todte (Magar Makrooh Hain)
✅ Bosaa ya hug agar wo intercourse tak na le jaye.
✅ Shohr-biwi ka paas baithna ya physical closeness jab tak desire na jagay.
Fuqaha farmate hain ke agar fitna ka khauf ho, to aise amal se parhez behtar hai.
Kaffara – Roze Ke Dauran Mubashrat Ka Azaala
Agar shohr-biwi ne roze ke waqt mubashrat ki, to un par kaffara wajib hai:
Ghulam azaad karna (aaj ke daur mein laagu nahi).
Do mahine lagataar rozay (60 din bina rukawat).
Agar ye mumkin nahi, to 60 miskeenon ko khilana — har ek ko do waqt ka khana ya us ke barabar khurak.
Agar Ghalti Se Ya Bhool Kar Ho Jaye
Agar mubashrat bhool kar ho jaye, to kuch ulema kehte hain ke roza ka qadha lazmi hai magar kaffara nahi.
Lekin agar jaan bujh kar mubashrat ho, to dono cheezein qadha aur kaffara dono wajib ho jati hain.
Qadha: Baad mein us din ka roza dobara rakhna.
Kaffara: 60 rozay ya 60 miskeenon ko khilana.
Is Hukm Ki Roohani Hikmat
Ramadan ka asal maqsad apne nafs par qaboo aur taqwa hasil karna hai.
Jis tarah khana-peena Allah ke liye chhoda jata hai, usi tarah jinsi khwahish par bhi qaboo paana roohani training ka hissa hai.
Islam mubashrat ko mana nahi karta, magar usay waqt aur adaab ke sath ijazat deta hai.
Raat ke waqt halal aur din ke waqt mana kar ke Islam ne ibadat aur zarurat mein ek behtareen balance rakha hai.
Taj Company Quran aur Tafseer – Asal Islami Rehnumai
Jo log Ramadan aur roze ke ahkaam ko behtar samajhna chahte hain, unke liye Taj Company Quran aur Tafseer editions behtareen rehnumai hain.
Yahan aapko milte hain:
📘 Surah Al-Baqarah ki tafseer (ayat 187 par mukammal wazahat).
📘 Hadith references jo fasting aur kaffara se mutaliq hain.
📘 Fiqh aur Islamic rulings jo Ramadan ke ahkaam ko samjhate hain.
In books ke zariye aap apni ibadat aur roza dono ko sahi tareeqe se anjaam de sakte hain.
Nateeja (Conclusion)
Roze ke waqt mubashrat karna Islam mein sakht mana hai.
Raat ke waqt (iftar se sehri tak) ye halal hai, magar din ke waqt (fajr se maghrib tak) ye amal roza tod deta hai aur kaffara zaroori hota hai.
Musalmano ko chahiye ke wo is mubarak mahine mein sabr, taqwa aur ibadat par tawajju dein, aur apni jinsi khwahishat ko Allah ke hukm ke mutabiq control karein.
Authentic Qur’an translations, Tafseer, aur Ramadan guidance ke liye visit karein Quran.com — jahan aapko Taj Company Quran aur Islamic books milti hain.
If no ejaculation occurs, the fast is valid but disliked.
Scholars differ, but majority say the fast is broken and qadha required, not kaffara.
No, kaffara is an individual responsibility. Each partner who breaks the fast intentionally must do their own.
